This day was wonderful. It was my first day that I spent completely alone and totally at home. I had many things to think about and I'm really glad that I forced myself to deal with it instead of running away from it or pushing it off for a later time. Like I've been doing inadvertently this whole time.
So, if you're new to this blog or if you're just checking in on the haps of a one CrisM, I am currently sitting in a tiny one bedroom apartment in West Seattle. A very drastic change from my giant farmhouse in Italy filled with all my pet children.
This entire time that I've been stateside (going on about two months now) I've been so uncomfortable and anxious. It wasn't until today that I've realized that it's never going to get better or easier... but more importantly- that it's OK that it doesn't.
Another thing that is now irrelevant is the lack of a homey feel to this apartment. It was such a big deal for me to nest and to inject "CrisM" into this 600 square feet box. I felt stuck and defeated because I have all of the things I've collected over the years just sitting in Italy. I temporarily forgot that those things are just that- things, stuff, shit essentially. I mean, yes, I enjoy having a gorgeous white Italian leather couch, and my beautiful dining room set, my shoe collection, my piano, etc. But, at first I was upset that none of that stuff was here, right NOW. I'm over it. I've moved many times before. I was without all that stuff for many months and I survived just fine. This time around should be no different.
Thirdly, the misconception of having "nothing" to do. Classes don't start until the spring for me and in the mean time I've felt so directionless. I can only go to the movies in the middle of the afternoon so many times a week before the theater staff thinks I'm some sort of weirdo. I have a particular lifestyle when it comes to food so eating out is pointless because although I omit half the shit they put into a meal, it still costs the same. And let's face it- I can cook chicken and veggies for less than half the price at a mediocre food joint. Then it dawned on me: "Go exploring!" That's all I ever did when I was in Italy anyway- and there were so many more "dangerous" things that could have happened. I don't know why I haven't used my time more wisely so far. I mean, there are TONS of cool things to check out just in Seattle alone. But, all the outlaying cities must have cool things to check out too.
So that's the game plan. I've reflected. I've brainstormed, formulated a plan and starting tomorrow- I will carry on the way I've always done. With a smile and a grateful attitude that I still live a very charmed life. Although, it doesn't compare to being in Italy with the love of my life; I am still the same person and I choose to be happy regardless of my current situation.
Wish me luck!
Until next time, may the sunshine be with you always.